About Marla
My Journey of Spiritual Discovery: Embracing Faith and Growth
I’m thrilled to share with you my personal journey of spiritual exploration and growth, as it’s been a profound and transformative experience for me.
Growing up in a Catholic family, I was immersed in the rich traditions of my faith from an early age. However, it wasn’t until later in life that I truly began to delve into the depths of my spirituality and the power of prayer.
Through my journey, I’ve discovered the immense significance of silence, obedience, and devotion to Jesus in my prayer life. These virtues have become guiding principles as I continue to deepen my relationship with God.
From attending public speaking classes to engaging with diverse spiritual communities, I’ve embraced every opportunity for reflection and growth. My heart remains open to the divine whisper, and my spirit is attuned to God’s grace as I journey forward.
I invite you to join me on this path of self-discovery and faith, and I hope that my journey inspires you to cultivate a deeper, more meaningful connection with the Divine in your own life.
Warm regards,
Marla
Silent Struggles: The Impact of Divorce on Children's Lives
As a child, I grappled with emotions that were beyond my years. The uncertainty of my family’s future weighed heavily on my young mind, overshadowing simple joys and milestones that should have been part of my childhood. I often found myself questioning my worth and place in the world, wondering if I was somehow to blame for the upheaval in my family.
Moreover, the absence of my father during that crucial developmental stage left a void that was difficult to fill. His sudden departure shattered my sense of security and stability, leaving me longing for the comforting presence of both parents. I yearned for the normalcy that seemed out of reach in the midst of our family’s turmoil.
Transitioning to a public school only compounded the challenges I faced. The unfamiliar environment and social dynamics were daunting, exacerbating feelings of isolation and alienation. While other children seemed to effortlessly adept, I struggled to navigate the complexities of my new reality while carrying the weight of my family’s discord.
Looking back, I realize how profoundly my parents’ divorce shaped my formative years. The scars left by that turbulent period continue to influence my relationships and outlook on life. But amidst the pain and hardship, I’ve also found resilience and strength. My experiences have instilled in me a deep empathy for children caught in the crossfire of divorce, and a determination to advocate for their well-being.
It’s a sobering reality that many parents fail to fully grasp the impact of their decisions on their children. The emotional toll of divorce extends far beyond the dissolution of a marriage, leaving lasting scars on the hearts and minds of innocent bystanders. As adults, it’s our responsibility to recognize and address the hidden burdens borne by children of divorce, and to strive for solutions that prioritize their emotional and psychological welfare.
In sharing my story, I hope to shed light on the silent struggles endured by countless children facing similar circumstances. By amplifying their voices and advocating for change, we can work towards a future where every child is spared the pain of navigating the fallout of divorce alone.
My Vision
My Mission
Mission: “My mission is to strengthen marriages and resolve conflicts proactively, preventing divorce filings and fostering lasting marital harmony.”
My Core Values
Marla's Guiding Principles
1. Infinite Possibilities: Grounded in our belief in the inherent dignity and limitless potential of every individual, we foster hope, growth, and transformation guided by the grace of God.
2. Empowering Communication: Inspired by the teachings of Jesus Christ, we promote productive and empathetic dialogue, recognizing the importance of understanding and compassion in resolving conflicts.
3. Strengthening Family Bonds: Rooted in the Catholic understanding of the family as a sacred institution, we are committed to keeping families united and nurturing environments where children can flourish in love and faith.
4. Commitment to Best Interests: Guided by the Gospel message of love and service, we prioritize the well-being of children, working tirelessly to facilitate agreements that serve their highest good.
5. Active Listening and Fairness: Reflecting the Gospel call to justice and mercy, we ensure that every voice is heard and respected, promoting unity and fairness in our mediation processes.
With these values, the Marla Fernandez Mediation Group embodies the spirit of Catholic Traditional teaching, fostering harmonious relationships and nurturing environments where families can experience God’s love and grace.
Guided by Faith: Tailored Resolutions
When trust and communication prevail, tailored resolutions emerge. As someone deeply rooted in traditional Catholic values, I honor principles of integrity, compassion, and justice in every mediation session. Unlike courts, we dive into the practical and psychological dimensions of conflicts, empowering you to craft holistic solutions guided by our shared Catholic faith. As your mediator, I guide you, free from legal constraints, enabling a comprehensive view informed by our Catholic values. Your agreement, covering legal and non-legal matters, unleashes unrivaled creativity, going beyond litigation's bounds. Our goal: win-win resolutions, outside the courtroom, firmly grounded in Catholic values. Even if litigation looms, rest assured, a predictable outcome awaits you.
Empowered Communication: Marla Fernandez Mediation
At the Marla Fernandez Mediation Group, we cherish the sacred values of open and secure communication, reflecting the deep-rooted traditions of our Catholic faith. Our mediation process offers a safe haven, a neutral ground where hearts can speak freely, and solutions can be explored with compassion. In mediation, you have the liberty to choose a setting that feels right to your soul, creating a serene environment for heartfelt conversations. We recognize that each journey is unique, and though mediation may not always resolve everything, you have the freedom to take the path that aligns with your beliefs or pursue other avenues. Making decisions, especially in delicate matters like divorce and co-parenting, can be overwhelming. As a firm believer in Catholic values, my role is to stand beside you, offering guidance and support as you navigate through your options. Your well-being and autonomy are at the core of our commitment to keeping your choices open.
Faithful Mediation: Tailored Solutions
When trust and communication are upheld in accordance with traditional Catholic values, tailored resolutions emerge. Unlike court proceedings, where legalities dominate, our approach delves into the practical and psychological dimensions of conflicts, allowing for holistic solutions to be crafted. As your mediator, I guide you through the process, drawing upon the principles of our faith to offer comprehensive support. Your agreement, addressing both legal and non-legal matters, reflects the richness of Catholic values, fostering creativity and understanding beyond the confines of litigation. Our goal is to achieve win-win resolutions outside the courtroom, guided by the timeless principles of our faith. Even when faced with the possibility of litigation, you can trust in a predictable outcome rooted in Catholic values.
Private Mediation
At the Marla Fernandez Mediation Group, privacy is at the heart of everything we do. Unlike court proceedings, our mediation process is deeply private and confidential. There are no public lawsuits or open hearings. We recognize the sensitivity of your disputes and understand that a public record may not be needed. With utmost respect for your privacy, we offer a secure environment for open communication, ensuring that your personal matters remain shielded from unnecessary exposure. Your confidentiality is our top priority throughout our mediation journey.
Navigating Emotional Complexities: Mediation's Path to Closure
At the Marla Fernandez Mediation Group, I understand the profound emotional toll that lawsuits can exact on individuals and families. Litigation is not only costly and time-consuming but also induces elevated stress and anxiety. Waiting for a trial date can feel like life is on hold, while the outcome remains uncertain. When children are involved, the adversarial nature of litigation may exacerbate polarization and bitterness, making future interactions more challenging. Emotional scars from a contentious legal battle can strain relationships and impede satisfactory resolutions. In mediation, my objective is to cultivate an environment where all parties actively engage in the negotiation process. Your direct involvement shapes the agreement and addresses underlying issues. This active participation fosters both a legal and psychological commitment, making the agreement truly yours. My commitment is to guide you through the emotional complexities and mitigate the emotional costs of legal disputes. Through collaborative mediation, we strive to craft resolutions that promote resilience and well-being, allowing you to move forward with closure and empowerment. Your emotional well-being is my top priority, and I am dedicated to supporting you on the path to a more harmonious future.
Empower Your Resolution: Call Today for Transformative Mediation!
Step into the realm of transformative mediation with us today! Our journey begins with an initial session where all parties come together to explore mediation as a potential solution. We provide a special mediation agreement outlining ground rules and financial aspects to ensure clarity and alignment.
Until this agreement is finalized, we refrain from delving into the intricacies of the conflict. Once all parties sign the mediation pact, the real exploration begins!
Our sessions offer a unique blend of unity and flexibility. We convene with all parties together to foster shared understanding and open dialogue. In moments of heightened emotions, separate meetings can serve as stepping stones to reconciliation, providing a safe space for candid discussions without escalating conflicts.
As your mediator, my superpower lies in enhancing communication, liberating you from past disputes and trivial quarrels. By reducing hostility and friction, I create an environment conducive to introspection.
Join me on this thrilling adventure where we uncover uncharted avenues and creative possibilities. Together, we’ll craft fresh, innovative solutions to resolve disagreements and discover common ground. It’s time to leave behind the constraints of the past and embrace a brighter, more harmonious future.
The time for this magical mediation journey is now! Don’t hesitate—explore new horizons and build a bridge to understanding. Call me today, and let the adventure begin! 🌟🌌📞